My bffs grandpa has pancreus cancer

[chris]

well truly there is nothing you can do but wait for her to come to you. be there, however, in case she needs to talk. dont push her into talking but let her know that you are there and ur not going anywhere. and dont get mad or upset if she becomes angry with your persistence. just make sure u let her know u love and care for her. its easier to talk about a while after you find out something as detrimental as this. i hope for the best for your friends grandfather!

[Miranda]

Ask her if she wants to talk about it. If she doesn't, just let her be and give her some time. Once she feels better, you can go on talking normally to her, just like you are BFFL =]